Thursday, March 16, 2017

Valentine's Day Special Tips to Boost Your Sex Life 2017


Many of us will be planning a romantic night out or a sexy evening in for our partner on Valentine's Day.
To ensure fun, fireworks, and a night to remember, we round up some of the ways you can give yourself and your partner's sexual satisfaction a boost, not just for Valentine's Day but all year long.
Share childcare responsibilities

A 2015 study from Georgia State University found that couples who split childcare duties more equally have a higher-quality relationship and sex life than couples in which the majority of the responsibilities lie with the mother.
While women taking more responsibility for childcare had a negative effect, with both partners reporting lower-quality relationships and sex lives compared to couples that split childcare responsibilities, when men were responsible for the majority of duties there was no adverse effect on the relationship or sex life, suggesting that men could have a lot to gain and nothing to lose by helping out more.
Start sexting

Although studies -- and opinions -- on sexting are mixed, a 2015 study showed that getting flirty via your smartphone could result in better sex.
An online survey of 870 Americans found that three-quarters had sent sexy images to a partner, and associated sexting with better relationship satisfaction.
Despite its negative reputation the study's author said that sexting can have an upside, and when used by a loving couple can help improve communication and increase intimacy, resulting in improvements in sexual and relationship satisfaction.
Get enough shut-eye
In a study was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, US researchers found that one way to improve a woman's desire could be as simple as getting enough sleep.
The study found that insufficient sleep can decrease sexual desire and arousal for women, and that those women who slept more on a given night saw a boost in their desire the following day, with each additional hour of sleep increasing the likelihood of sexual activity with their partners by 14 percent.
Sleeping too much, however, appeared to diminish sexual desire the next day, with the authors concluding that, "the take-home message should not be that more sleep is better, but that it is important to allow ourselves to obtain the sleep that our mind and body needs."
Don't force it
Although society and the media may sell us the idea that having lots of sex is the sign of a successful relationship and the key to happiness, a 2015 study from Carnegie Mellon University in the US suggests that increasing the amount you have sex could actually make it more of a chore, rather than something fun.
Published in the Journal of Economic Behavior and Organization, the study showed that when couples were instructed to have double the amount of sex they normally would in a week, they did their duty, but actually later reported a small decrease in happiness, with the team suggesting that individuals may need genuine inspiration on their own accord to initiate more sex and reap the benefits.
And don't fake it
A recent study from the University of Waterloo in Canada also revealed that although you might think you're putting on a good performance, the chances are your partner will know if you're faking it.
After looking at 84 couples the researchers found that on average, both men and women can evaluate fairly accurately their partners' level of sexual satisfaction.
The team concluded that although many of us fake it from time to time, their findings underscore the importance of communication in a healthy sexual relationship, which can help couples to better understand their partners' sexual satisfaction.

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Naughty and Nice Sex Tips 2017

A Steamy Shower
Naughty: Use the shower stream or detachable headto give him an insider's peek at how you get yourself going. Send him over the edge with your enthusiasm and a soft whisper about how you think of him when you're solo.
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An Oral Experience
Nice: Trail kisses from his jaw to his happy trail, then use the tip of your tongue to make your way to his member. By the time you actually take him in your mouth, he'll be practically convulsing with anticipation.

Naughty: Give a bad-girl BJ. Grab a lip balm that contains cooling menthol. It'll react with his hot skin to leave a little tingle wherever your lips touch him. Those shivers will travel all the way up his spine.

Unwrapping Some Presents
Nice: Dress up in his favorites from your closet (think that fitted dress he loves and those special stilettos), and let him peel the pieces off you one by one. Make sure underneath it all is a new-to-him lingerie surprise.

Naughty: Make him your prisoner of love. Put on a peekaboo bra and sexy panties, then have him turn away from you. Tie his wrists and bind his eyes with your racy underthings, and have your way with him.

Sharing Sexy Snacks
Nice: Tie a scarf over his eyes, and slowly feed him sweet treats from your mouth, making him guess what he's just tasted. Heat things up even more by using your tummy and breasts as serving surfaces.

Naughty: Celebrate—and titillate—with some bubbly. Take a sip from an icy-cold glass of champers, then roll your tongue and lips over his nipples. The cold restricts his capillaries and leads to sinful sensations.

Just a Kiss
Nice: Set up a movie night on the couch, and tell him he's only getting to first base. It's an innocent come-on that will make you both want more. Letting him try to "convince" you to go further is half the fun.

Naughty: Lure his tongue into your mouth, and when he pulls it back, wrap your lips around the tip, sucking like you would during oral. It's an R-rated preview that will have him aching for the feature presentation.

8 Sex Tips From Cosmo Twitter Followers 2017

When we spotted the Twitter trending topic #letsmakelove, we just couldn't resist asking our followers how they would finish that sentence. Below are some of our favorite responses...

Let's make love...
8 Sex Tips From Cosmo Twitter Followers 2017


  • ...in the SAUNAAA. —@jmillerxo
  • ...somewhere we can get caught. —@HethurrDee
  • ...as soon as we can. —@IrresistibleJen
  • ...before and after work. —@Ash_Sparkles22
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  • ...like its gonna end up in "the naughtiest thing I've ever done" section. —@JDeV7
  • ...on the lawn til dawn! —@LiveLetLove
  • ...till I can barely walk. —@LittleBumbum
  • ...after I've finished reading cosmo. —@Imaginarydiva86

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Eight Must-Read Tips for First-Time Sex 2017

The first time you have sex with someone — or sex at all — is a deeply individual experience. “Sex” means different things and comes with different emotions from person to person (and from hookup to hookup, tbh). That said, there *are* a handful of insights that can make your first time having vaginal sex more comfy, communicative, and pleasurable, which are pretty universally great things for sex to be. Here are nine first-time pointers, with advice from sex therapist Vanessa Marin.

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1. Consent is a prerequisite for everything you do.
“Make sure you enthusiastically consent to each and every thing the two of you do together,” Marin says. “‘Enthusiastic’ is a key part of that sentence. Don't just go along with something; make sure you're excited about it.” Remember that just because you start an activity, for example intercourse, you don’t have to finish or continue it: you have the right to pause or stop whatever it is. No. Matter. What. Same goes for your partner, of course: check in with each other as things progress to make sure you’re both enthusiastic about what you’re doing.

2. Remember to breathe.
A big part of enjoying sex is focusing on the sensations you’re feeling instead of, for example, your nervousness (which is totally common to feel your first time, even if you know you’re ready to have sex). “Deep breathing is a fantastic way to let go of distracting thoughts,” Marin points out. As you’re taking those deep breaths, focus on how different parts of your body are feeling and how your partner’s body feels against yours — not just the obvious part (penis in vagina) but their fingers in your hair, hands on your hips, whatever it is.

3. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Did I mention foreplay?
The more aroused you are, the better sex is likely to feel, so don’t neglect foreplay — including oral sex, manual sex, and, yes, good old-fashioned kissing. “You're more likely to orgasm from oral sex or fingering,” Marin says, “so resist the temptation to think of these activities as the things you do before moving on to the ‘main event.’” Whether or not you do orgasm the first time you have sex, clitoral stimulation is the key to most women’s pleasure, and vaginal intercourse doesn’t usually provide very much of it.

4. Caring about your partner’s pleasure matters more than your technique.
It’s natural to worry that you won’t be “good” in bed your first time, but trust: what matters most is that you are invested in how your partner feels and vice versa, and that you two are communicating about it. "A lot of people get anxious about sexual performance, but perhaps the best quality in a lover is enthusiasm,” Marin says. “If you're genuinely enjoying pleasuring him, he'll notice it, and he'll have a lot more fun too." Simple questions like “How does that feel?” and “Do you like it when I [fill-in-the-blank]?” give your partner a chance to express appreciation for what you’re doing or (gently) ask for something a little different. (As well as prompt them to ask you the same questions!)


5. Feedback is not the same as criticism, so don’t hesitate to give it.
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A common concern is that if you tell your partner that something doesn’t feel good — or that something else would feel better — they’ll feel attacked. But if they care about your pleasure, they’ll be happy to hear how to help you feel it. In the moment, it can be hard to figure out what exactly you want, so it can be helpful to talk after the fact about what you enjoyed, what you could do without, and what you’d like to try next time. And if you don’t have an orgasm, don’t feel pressure to pretend to have one. Think of orgasming not your responsibility but as a fun goal to work toward with your partner(s), together.

6. Lube is your friend.
Using lube sometimes gets a bad rap as a sign that you’re not turned on enough, but even if you and your body are saying “Okay let’s do this!”, a little lube can make sex so much more pleasurable. Another benefit of using a water- or silicone-based lube with a condom (avoid oil-based lube, which can degrade latex) is that less friction means the condom is less likely to tear.

7. Your partner’s penis might not do everything the two of you want.
Whether premature ejaculation, a limp penis, or inability to orgasm strike, it doesn’t mean that something is wrong with your partner or that you failed them somehow. Comfort with a new partner often takes time and communication, and that goes for both men and women.

8. Temper your expectations.
Teen movies and TV shows sold us a pretty unrealistic vision of what having sex for the first time looks like. It’s always perfectly choreographed and mood-lit and romantic, and ends in an implied simultaneous orgasm. As if. Don’t expect fireworks the first time you have sex — sex is messy and human and flawed and often awkward whether it’s your first time or your thousandth. It’s the practice and the exploration that make sex fun.

These Are the Most Searched For Sex Positions By State 2017

Unless you’ve gone out of your way to memorize the Kama Sutra, you’ve probably Googled sex positions at least once in your life. (Hey, that’s why we created this handy list of the best sex positions every guy should try.)

But let’s face it, the scientific (and not so scientific) world is clustered with surveys and studies that claim to reveal the best bedroom moves. Understanding that the Internet is home to the sexually curious, AskMen decided to take things a step further with their own study. Using Google AdWords and an existing list of standard sex positions, their team discovered the most-searched for sex positions by state. The results are worthy of sharing, to say the least. Here’s what we learned.


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